יד בָּא הוּא תְּחִלָּה וְעָמַד, וְאַחַר כָּךְ עָמְדָה הִיא כְּנֶגְדּוֹ, וּזְרָקוֹ לָהּ, אִם הָיָה הַגֵּט בְּתוֹךְ אַרְבַּע אַמּוֹת שֶׁלּוֹ, אֵינָהּ מְגֹרֶשֶׁת, אַף עַל פִּי שֶׁאִם תָּשׁוּחַ תִּטְּלֶנּוּ. עָמְדָה הִיא תְחִלָה, וּבָא הוּא וְעָמַד כְּנֶגְדָּהּ וּזְרָקוֹ לָהּ, אַף עַל פִּי שֶׁהוּא מֶחֱצָה לְמֶחֱצָה, הוֹאִיל וְהִיא לְתוֹךְ אַרְבַּע אַמּוֹת שֶׁלָּהּ, הֲרֵי זֶה גֵּט פָּסוּל, עַד שֶׁיַּגִּיעַ הַגֵּט לְיָדָהּ. הַגָּה: אֲבָל אִם זָרַק לָהּ לְתוֹךְ אַרְבַּע אַמּוֹת שֶׁלָּהּ, וְאֵין הַבַּעַל נִכְנַס לְתוֹכוֹ, הֲרֵי זוֹ מְגֹרֶשֶׁת. וְכָל זֶה מִדִּינָא, אֲבָל לְכַתְּחִלָּה אֵין לְגָרֵשׁ, אֲפִלּוּ לִתֵּן הַגֵּט לְתוֹךְ חֲצֵרָהּ אוֹ לְתוֹךְ מַלְבּוּשֶׁיהָ, אֶלָּא לְתוֹךְ יָדָהּ מַמָּשׁ, וְיָדָהּ תְּהֵא פְּתוּחָה מִתְּחִלַּת הַנְּתִינָה עַד סוֹפָהּ (מָרְדְּכַי פֶּרֶק הַזּוֹרֵק וּסְמַ"ק וְכָל בּוֹ), כְּמוֹ שֶׁנִּתְבָּאֵר לְעֵיל סִימָן קל"ח. וַאֲפִלּוּ בְּדִיעֲבַד אֵין לְהַתִּירָהּ לְעָלְמָא עַד שֶׁבָּא הַגֵּט לְיָדָהּ מַמָּשׁ. וְנָהֲגוּ עוֹד שֶׁלְּאַחַר שֶׁנָּתַן לָהּ הַגֵּט תִּסְגֹּר יָדֶיהָ וְתַכְנִיסֶנּוּ תַּחַת בְּגָדֶיהֶ. וְתִזָּהֵר שֶׁלֹּא יְסַיֵּע לָהּ שׁוּם אָדָם בְּקַבָּלָתוֹ, גַּם לֹא יְהֵא שׁוּם דָּבָר, כְּגוֹן טַבַּעַת, בְּיָדָהּ, וְכַיּוֹצֵא בָּזֶה, בִּשְׁעַת קַבָּלָתוֹ (הַכֹּל בְּסֵדֶר הַגֵּט):
14 If he came first and stood, and afterwards she stood opposite to him, and he threw (the divorce bill)to her, if the divorce bill was within four cubits of distance from him, she is not divorced, even though if it rolls she will take it. If she came first and stood, and he arrived and stood opposite her and he threw (the divorce bill)to her, even though he is halfway, since she is within her four cubits, this is an invalid divorce bill until the divorce bill gets to her hand. Rema: However, if he threw to her within her four cubits and the husband did not come within her four cubits, she is divorced. And all this is according to the law, but from the outset this is no divorce, and [the same applies regarding] even throwing the divorce bill in her courtyard or inside her clothing - rather, inside her hand literally, and her hand needs to be open from the beginning of the [process of] giving to the end (Mordechai Chapter Hazorek, and Smak, and Kol Bo) as we explained above on the siman 138. And even after the fact we should not permit her to the world unless the divorce bill gets literally to her hand. And there is still the practice that she closes her hand after the giving of the divorce bill, and puts it inside her clothes. And be careful that no man should aid her in the [act of] receiving the divorce bill, and that no thing should be in her hands, such a ring and the like, at the moment of the receiving (everything according to the divorce bill).