Shulchan Aruch, Yoreh De'ah Siman 255

Siman 255

Presented here for study, not as a practical ruling. The Shulchan Aruch rules by Sephardi custom, the Rema's glosses by Ashkenazi custom, and the Kitzur follows Ashkenazi custom. For a practical question, ask your rabbi.

א לְעוֹלָם יַרְחִיק אָדָם עַצְמוֹ מֵהַצְּדָקָה וִיגַלְגֵל עַצְמוֹ בְּצַעַר, שֶׁלֹּא יִצְטָרֵךְ לַבְּרִיּוֹת. וְכֵן צִוּוּ חֲכָמִים: עֲשֵׂה שַׁבָּתְךָ חֹל, וְאַל תִּצְטָרֵךְ לַבְּרִיּוֹת. וַאֲפִלוּ הָיָה חָכָם מְכֻבָּד וְהֶעֱנִי, יַעֲ ק בְּאֻמָּנוּת וְאֲפִלוּ בְּאֻמָּנוּת מְנֻוֶּלֶת, וְאַל יִצְטָרֵךְ לַבְּרִיּוֹת.
1 One should always avoid charity and rather roll in misery than to depend upon the help of man. And thus our Sages commanded, "Rather make thy Sabbath a week-day than be dependent on men." And even though he be scholarly and respectable, let him engage in some occupation, even an unpleasant occupation, so as not to need the help of man.
ב ֹ כָּל מִי שֶׁאֵינוֹ צָרִיךְ לִטֹּל מֵהַצְּדָקָה וּמְרַמֶּה הָעָם וְנוֹטֵל, אֵינוֹ מֵת עַד שֶׁיִּצְטָרֵךְ לַבְּרִיּוֹת. וְכָל מִי שֶׁצָּרִיךְ לִטֹּל וְאֵינוֹ יָכוֹל לִחְיוֹת אֶלָא אִם כֵּן יִטֹּל, כְּגוֹן זָקֵן אוֹ חוֹלֶה אוֹ בַּעַל יִסוּרִין, וּמֵגִיס דַּעְתּוֹ וְאֵינוֹ נוֹטֵל, הֲרֵי זֶה שׁוֹפֵךְ דָּמִים, וּמִתְחַיֵּב בְּנַפְשׁוֹ, וְאֵין לוֹ בְּצַעֲרוֹ אֶלָא עֲוֹנוֹת וְחָטָאִים. וְכָל מִי שֶׁצָּרִיךְ לִטֹּל וּמְצַעֵר עַצְמוֹ, וְדוֹחֵק אֶת הַשָּׁעָה, וְחַי חַיֵּי צַעַר כְּדֵי שֶׁלֹּא יַטְרִיחַ עַל הַצִּבּוּר, אֵינוֹ מֵת עַד שֶׁיְּפַרְנֵס אֲחֵרִים, וְעָלָיו הַכָּתוּב אוֹמֵר: בָּרוּךְ הַגֶבֶר אֲשֶׁר יִבְטַח בַּה' (יִרְמִיָּה יז, ז).
2 Whosoever is not in need of charity but deceives the public and takes it, will be in actual need before his days are ended. And whosoever is so much in need of charity that he cannot live unless he receive it—as, for instance, a man who is old or sick or in constant pain,—but takes none out of pride, is guilty of blood-shed and is responsible for his own life; so that he has nothing for his suffering, save punishment and sin. But, whosoever is in need of charity and suffers patiently and leads a pinched and humble life, so as not to become a burden to society, will live to help others some day; and it is with reference to such a person that the Bible says, "Blessed is the man that trusteth in the Lord."