Shulchan Aruch, Yoreh De'ah Siman 384

Siman 384

Presented here for study, not as a practical ruling. The Shulchan Aruch rules by Sephardi custom, the Rema's glosses by Ashkenazi custom, and the Kitzur follows Ashkenazi custom. For a practical question, ask your rabbi.

א אָבֵל, כָּל שִׁבְעָה יָמִים אָסוּר לִקְרוֹת בְּתוֹרָה, נְבִיאִים וּכְתוּבִים, מִשְׁנָה, גְמָרָא, הֲלָכוֹת וְאַגָדוֹת. וְאִם רַבִּים צְרִיכִים לוֹ לְהִתְלַמֵּד, מֻתָּר, וּבִלְבַד שֶׁלֹּא יַעֲמִיד תֻּרְגְמָן אֶלָא יֹאמַר לְאַחֵר, וְהָאַחֵר לַתֻּרְגְמָן, וְתֻרְגְמָן יַשְׁמִיעַ לָרַבִּים. הַגָּה: אוֹ יִדְרֹשׁ בְּעַצְמוֹ (מָרְדְּכַי הִלְכוֹת אֵבֶל). וְיָכוֹל לִפְסֹק אִסּוּר וְהֶתֵּר לְיָחִיד הַשּׁוֹאֵל אוֹתוֹ, אִם אֵין אַחֵר אֶלָּא הוּא, וּצְרִיכִין לוֹ (בא"ז וְר' יְרוּחָם). אָבֵל אָסוּר לוֹמַר הֲלָכָה לְתַלְמִידָיו, וְכֵן נוֹהֲגִין, אַף עַל פִּי שֶׁיֵּשׁ מְקִלִּין (תא"ו בְּשֵׁם י"א).
1 A mourner throughout the seven days [of mourning] is forbidden to read the Pentateuch, Prophets or Hagiographa, [or to study] Mishna, Gemara, Halakoth or Aggadoth. If, however, the public have need of him in order that they receive instruction [from him], he is permitted [to study and thus prepare for the lecture], provided that [during the exposition of his lecture] he does not place [at his side] an interpreter, but he should expound [first] to another person, who, in turn, [conveys the exposition] to the interpreter, and the latter announces it to the public. Rema: Or he may himself expound [ directly to the public ]. One may render decisions in matters of ritual law to an individual inquirer, provided he is the only one available [ to render such decisions ] and the public have need of him. But he is forbidden to expound Halaka to his students. Thus is the common practice, although some are lenient [ in this matter ].
ב אִם הָאָבֵל כֹּהֵן, וְאֵין בב"ה כֹּהֵן אַחֵר, אָסוּר לוֹ לַעֲלוֹת לִקְרוֹת בַּתּוֹרָה.
2 If a mourner is a Kohen, and there is no other Kohen [present] in the Synagogue, he is forbidden to go up to the reading of the Torah [as Kohen ].
ג אִם אֵין שָׁם מִי שֶׁיִּתְפַּלֵל לְהוֹצִיא אֶת הָרַבִּים יְדֵי חוֹבָתָן, יָכוֹל הָאָבֵל לְהִתְפַּלֵל לְהוֹצִיאָן. הַגָּה: וּמִצְוָה לְהִתְפַּלֵּל שַׁחֲרִית וְעַרְבִית בַּמָּקוֹם שֶׁמֵּת שָׁם, אֲפִלּוּ אֵין אָבֵל, כִּי יֵשׁ בָּזֶה נַחַת רוּחַ לַנְּשָׁמָה (א"ז), וְהָאָבֵל מִצְטָרֵף לְמִנְיָן (שָׁם).
3 If there is no one else [present] who is [capable] of leading in the [Congregational] prayers to act on behalf of the public in order that they perform their duty, the mourner may lead in the [Congregational] prayers, and thus cause [the listeners] to perform their duty. Rema: It is a religious duty to recite the [ daily ] prayers at the morning and evening services in the place where the person died, even if there is no [ surviving ] mourner, for this affords gratification to the soul [ of the departed ], and the mourner is counted in the Minyan.
ד אָבֵל מֻתָּר לִקְרוֹת בְּאִיּוֹב וּבְקִינוֹת וּבִדְבָרִים הָרָעִים שֶׁבְּיִרְמִיָּה וּבְהִלְכוֹת אֲבֵלוּת וְעַיֵּן בא"ח סִימָן תקנ"ד סָעִיף ב'. וְהָנֵי מִלֵי בֵּינוֹ לְבֵין עַצְמוֹ, אֲבָל אֵינוֹ לוֹמֵד עִם אֲחֵרִים, אֶלָא הֵם יוֹשְׁבִים וְנוֹשְׂאִים וְנוֹתְנִין בְּהִלְכוֹת אֲבֵלוּת, וְאִם טָעוּ מְשִׁיבָן בְּשָׂפָה רָפָה, וְהוּא אֵינוֹ שׁוֹאֵל. וְהָנֵי מִלֵי כְּשֶׁאֵין רַבִּים צְרִיכִים לוֹ, אֲבָל אִם רַבִּים צְרִיכִים לוֹ, אֲפִלוּ בַּהֲלָכוֹת אֲחֵרוֹת מֻתָּר, כִּדְאָמְרִינַן.
4 A mourner is permitted to read Job, Lamentations, the sad parts of Jeremiah and the Laws of Mourning. This applies only [if he reads or studies] privately, but he must not study with others, only that they [others] may sit and debate on the laws of Mourning [in his presence], and if they err, he may refute them in low indistinct speech, but he may not ask [them] questions. However, this applies only if the public have no need of him, but if the public have need of him, — [the law is that] even with respect to other laws he is permitted [to engage in the study thereof] as we have already stated.
ה אָבֵל שֶׁיֵּשׁ לוֹ בָּנִים קְטַנִּים, אֵין לוֹ לְבַטְּלָם מִלִמּוּדָם.
5 A mourner who has minor children should not suspend them from their studies.